{ Slipping through the cracks. }
Slipping through the cracks.Question: Why do most people act relatively better towards the opposite sex than they do their own?
From my personal observations, I have established that many girls would treat their homeboys in a finer manner than their homegirls. I mean, it is pretty obvious how their mood and attitude changes in the presence of preferred friends of the opposite gender. I am not suggesting that they get exceedingly flirty and all that but you can tell when they suddenly snub their girlfriends.
The very same for guys. Example, I think it is very hyprocritical when you dislike a place; restaurant, mall,clubs,whatever, only to go there when certain members of the opposite sex would like to. [*whispers:It is only valid when the person is your significant other, you then of course have to comply to their every whim and fancy (A special note for boys only) ]. More importantly, I feel it is very inappropriate to comfortably say yes to them (friends of a different sex) and a flat out no to your same sex homies with respect to the same matter. How contradictory is that?
It is extremely dissappointing for me when I have girlfriends who do that. I much rather not think that I have guyfriends of a higher standard than my girlfriends. I'm a girl's girl if you know what that means. I definitely value my girls more than my male buddies.
I admit, that sometimes, friends of a different breed so to speak, is genuinely needed and a lot of times preferred. But I hate noticing the change of face and personality. Should you not treat all of your friends with equal enthusiasm and respect regardless of gender?
Just wanted to you to think whether or not you are like that.
Keep it light, keep it bright, keep it gaaaaaaay. Need to watch the Producers again.
( a l y a a ) @ Saturday, January 07, 2006 / 3:35 pm /